
When I started using ChatGPT seriously in my People Ops work, I realised something quickly: getting an answer was never the problem. The real challenge was getting the right kind of questioning before the answer.
That’s what led me down a path — from small hacks, to leveraging memory, to even creating my own shorthands — to turn GPT into less of a compliant tool, and more of a sparring partner.
Here’s what I learned along the way. 👇
ChatGPT’s questions often hover at the surface — about polish or formatting.
Take this example:
Prompt: “Draft a leave policy for my company, XYZ Pvt. Ltd.”
Cosmetic question → “Should I make it more formal?”
Fundamental question → “How should consultants vs employees be treated differently in this policy?”
The second one doesn’t just change the tone — it changes the direction of the whole draft. That’s the kind of fundamental refinement you want AI to give you first — because it saves you from wasting time later.
I realised early on in the free GPT that every new session was a reset — it had no stateful (persistent) memory across sessions.
So I came up with a hack: I’d end every prompt with —
👉 “Before you respond, do you have any questions?”
It was clunky 🙂, but it forced GPT to question my premise before giving me an answer.
The turning point for me was when ChatGPT introduced memory (available on GPT Plus).
For the first time, I could bake in a default persona: GPT would always question the crux, context, or premise of my prompts before responding. No more hacks.
That precise feature — stateful memory across sessions — was the reason I decided to invest in GPT Plus personally. It solved a real workflow pain.
But I soon realised that even with memory, defaults alone weren’t enough.
Sometimes I needed GPT to just do the work quickly. Other times, I needed it to challenge me harder than even the default sparring. That’s when I created two shorthands:
JEX (Just Execute): Suppress all questioning — no sparring, no clarifications, no cosmetic queries. Just deliver the output and stop. Silence after delivery. Perfect when speed matters.
SPQ (Sparring Partner Questions): Intensify the sparring. Push harder on the assumptions.
Example:
Prompt: “Draft a diversity hiring policy.”
Default sparring: “Do you already track diversity metrics?”
SPQ mode: “What problem are you solving with this policy? Is it compliance-driven, brand-driven, or cultural? Each will lead to very different choices.”
That’s the difference between filling a template and reframing the whole problem.
Working with GPT taught me this: the best results don’t come when you treat it as a compliant follower or a stenographer.
The real power comes when you treat it as a pair (borrowing from pair programming 🙂)
Sometimes you want speed (JEX).
Sometimes you want your assumptions grilled (SPQ).
And sometimes the default sparring is just right.
Think of the difference like this:
Cosmetic questioning: “Do you want this report in Excel or PPT?”
Fundamental questioning: “Do we even need this report at all? What decision is it supposed to drive?”
That’s the leap from polish to premise. From hacks → to memory → to shorthands, my journey with GPT has been about turning it into less of a tool, and more of a partner.
That’s my system. Curious to hear: how are you designing your own interaction patterns with GPT?
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